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Overthinking Is Not The Cause Of Every Problem

Do You Think Overthinking Is The Cause Of Every Problem?

People don't just suffer because of worries of the heart. What they are battling may be sickness, accident recovery, serious lack or severe stress from work. And in this case blind advice will not mean much to them. 



Before you advise someone or start judging them, know that there are some kinds of problems that whether you care to think about it or not, it will painfully affect you; you will still suffer the pain. You can't avoid the pain and the effect whether you are overthinking it or not. 

Someone that was beaten or that is sick will feel pain even if they have a positive mindset. No matter how your mind is off it, your body will respond to it and the effect will be felt.

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Someone that is constantly starving too will feel pain and their body will change. It can even make them weak and unable to function well. This can take away their happiness and it is not because they are overthinking it. 

People don't just suffer because of worries of the heart. What they are battling may be sickness, accident recovery, serious lack or severe stress from work. And in this case blind advice will not mean much to them.


 

What do they need?

1. A lending hand; help them with what you can. This can be cash, material resources or assistance with task.

2. An understanding of what they are going through; know what is the cause of their problems and make them know that you understand it. 

3. Do not share their problems with others except they permit you to share it. 

4. Practical and related advise that is free of ridicule

5. Visit them and keep them company if you are living close to them.

6. Understand their effort; they love it when you know what effort they are putting in to improve their situation. They get upset when you talk to them without acknowledging what they are doing to get help. 

7. Pray for them; if you can't offer the above help, just help them pray.

Do you have any comments or anything to share? Feel free and let's talk. 



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